var flashObjectChildArray = [getObjectTag].children();
$(flashObjectChildArray ).each(function(i) {
	// if node contains the attribute name:movie
	if ($(flashObjectChildArray [i]).attr('name') == 'movie') {
		$(flashObjectChildArray [i]).attr('value', [urlToYourNewFlashFile]);
	}
	// if node is an embed tag
	if (flashObjectChildArray [i].tagName.toLowerCase() == 'embed') {
		$(flashObjectChildArray [i]).attr('src', [urlToYourNewFlashFile]);
	}
});